28/05/2023

Coaching with me

In a fast-paced world where success and personal fulfillment go hand in hand, the role of a transformative and high- performance coach has become increasingly significant. These coaches empower individuals to unleash their full potential, overcome obstacles, and achieve extraordinary results.

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As a transformative and high- performance coach, I offer a unique approach that combines deep personal transformation with practical strategies for success.

Coaching is more than just a conversation; it is a catalyst for personal growth and transformation. As a high- performance coach, my aim is to help you tap into your untapped potential and create lasting change. Together, we will explore the underlying beliefs and patterns that may be holding you back and develop strategies to overcome them.

One of the key aspects of transformative coaching is self- discovery. By delving into your core values, passions, and aspirations, we will uncover your true purpose and ignite the drive needed to achieve your goals. I will guide you through a process of self-reflection and provide the tools and support necessary to make meaningful changes in your life.

Unleashing your potential also requires developing a high-performance mindset. As your coach, I will challenge you to think bigger, set audacious goals, and stretch beyond your comfort zone. We will work on enhancing your focus, resilience, and ability to navigate challenges with confidence. Through personalized techniques and strategies, we will create a roadmap for success that aligns with your unique strengths and aspirations.

Transforming Challenges into Opportunities:

In life, we often encounter challenges and setbacks that can hinder our progress. However, with the right mindset and strategies, these challenges can become steppingstones to success. As a transformative coach, I will help you reframe obstacles as opportunities for growth and development.

Together, we will identify the limiting beliefs and self-imposed barriers that may be holding you back. By shifting your perspective and adopting empowering beliefs, you will gain the confidence and resilience needed to overcome obstacles. I will provide guidance and support as you navigate through difficult situations, helping you develop new strategies and approaches to achieve your desired outcomes.

High-Performance Strategies for success:

Achieving high performance requires a combination of mindset, skillset, and strategy. As a high- performance coach, I will equip you with practical tools and techniques to maximize your productivity and achieve exceptional results.

We will work on developing effective goal-setting strategies, prioritization techniques, and time management skills. I will help you streamline your workflow, eliminate distractions, and optimize your daily routines for peak performance. We will also focus on enhancing your communication and leadership skills, empowering you to influence others and create a positive impact in your personal and professional life.

Coaching with me as a transformative and high-performance coach is an investment in your personal and professional growth. Together, we will embark on a transformative journey that will unlock your true potential and propel you towards extraordinary achievements. By addressing both internal beliefs and external strategies, we will create a solid foundation for success. Are you ready to unleash your potential and achieve high-performance results? Get in touch with me today and let's embark on this transformative journey together.

18/06/2023

What motivates you in live?

When was the last time you smiled, not because you felt like it, but just for the sake of smiling? You’d probably do it more often if you knew that smiling was making you happier. That’s right! If you made all the facial expressions, you make when you’re excited, elated, and thrilled, even when you don’t actually feel those emotions, the truth is that you’d see an immediate improvement in your mood. Why does this matter? Because your mood is everything, especially when it comes to what motivates you to succeed in life.

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Your mind interprets the events we experience within the framework you set for yourself, meaning that whether an experience is positive or negative is largely determined by our mood and state of mind. Think about it: The emotion and meaning our minds attach to events ultimately count more than the experiences themselves because they condition our willingness to experience and pursue them. This is the key to uncovering what motivates you in life and how to use it to achieve your dreams.

Researchers generally split motivation into two different types: intrinsic and extrinsic. Intrinsic motivation comes from your own personal desire to meet your Six Human Needs. When you are intrinsically motivated, you want to do something because of the way it makes you feel – not for someone else. Examples of intrinsic motivation include contribution and growth. Contribution is one of our most vital human needs because it brings us fulfillment. If you want to volunteer and give back, you’re likely motivated by contribution. Growth is a powerful human need that drives us to master new skills, climb the career ladder, and more.

Extrinsic motivation, on the other hand, comes from people outside of yourself, like your boss, coworkers, or partner. When you’re extrinsically motivated, you want to earn a reward from someone outside yourself. Examples of extrinsic motivation are money and praise. Many people are driven by acquiring material things, yet they may find that this ultimately doesn’t bring them fulfillment in life. It's important to dig deeper to discover what motivates you to succeed beyond money. Praise and attention can be effective in reaching short-term goals, but when the praise goes away, so does our motivation.

Both types of motivation play a part in what motivates you in life, depending on what it is you want to achieve. For example, extrinsic motivation like monetary rewards is surprisingly not effective when it comes to workplace achievement like completing tasks or being more innovative. But it can also be highly effective – for example, the power of proximity is an extrinsic motivator that can drive you to raise your standards.

Beliefs have the power to create and the power to destroy. They shape your motivation and actions. Opinions, beliefs, and convictions play a role in what motivates you. Convictions, in particular, are deeply held beliefs that drive you to take action and pursue your goals relentlessly. By raising a belief to the level of conviction, you provide yourself with lasting motivation and a sense of purpose.

Goal-setting strategies are essential to capitalize on what motivates you. Set specific goals, chunk tasks into manageable goals, turn shoulds into musts, and stay committed. Celebrate your achievements and hold yourself accountable. Adopting healthy habits is another key factor. Feed your mind with positive and inspirational content, recharge your batteries through deep breathing and adequate sleep, and consider getting results coaching for a fresh perspective on your goals and progress.

In conclusion, understanding what motivates you in life is a vital step toward achieving success and fulfillment. By examining your mood, evaluating your energy levels, and turning beliefs into convictions, you can unlock your inner motivation. Combine this with effective goal-setting strategies and healthy habits, and you'll be empowered to pursue your dreams and create a meaningful life. Remember, motivation starts with you – it's a journey of self-discovery and self-mastery.

15/09/2023

Revitalize Your Life: 11 Steps to Personal Growth and Fulfillment

Have you ever felt that there should be more to life? It's a common human desire to seek growth and improvement. We often set goals, whether for more wealth, possessions, or influence, yet sometimes we find ourselves stuck in a rut. We reach a plateau and lose inspiration. What we truly long for is genuine fulfillment—a deeper sense of meaning and purpose.

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Every challenge in life is an opportunity in disguise. When you sense that you're stuck, it's the perfect moment to rejuvenate yourself. The idea is to understand that growth is not just for your benefit but to enable you to contribute more to the world.

Self-renewal is a crucial aspect of our spiritual well-being. Just as we strive for growth in our relationships and careers, we must also seek personal growth as individuals. By learning how to revitalize yourself, you can consistently reconnect with your life's purpose, reignite your passion, and rediscover your true self. The path to self-renewal may not always best straightforward, but it's unquestionably rewarding.

Begin with these 11 steps to revitalize yourself and infuse fresh meaning into every aspect of your life.

Take a Break for Self-Care: Despite society's glorification of constant work and connectivity, it's essential to grant yourself a timeout. Prioritize your mental and spiritual well-being by temporarily unplugging from life's demands and granting yourself the freedom to focus on self-renewal.

Cultivate Self-Awareness: Understanding yourself is the cornerstone of personal growth. Without self-awareness, it's challenging to set meaningful goals or find genuine fulfillment. Self-awareness involves seeing yourself objectively, beyond your emotions.

Craft Your Personal Blueprint: Part of self-awareness is recognizing whether you're following a blueprint set by others or one that aligns with your true desires and purpose. True fulfillment comes when your goals resonate with your genuine aspirations.

Uncover Your Life's Purpose: Your purpose is the driving force behind your existence, infusing your life with meaning. Link your goals to your purpose, and each morning, you'll awaken with energy and enthusiasm to tackle your tasks.

Break Free from Patterns: People often fall into repetitive habits that impede personal growth. Acknowledge and disrupt these patterns to experience emotional rejuvenation.

Challenge Limiting Beliefs: Examine your beliefs about yourself. These limiting beliefs can hold you back from pursuing your dreams. It's essential to believe in your potential to become the best version of yourself.

Transform Your Habits: Success arises from daily choices and habits. Eliminate detrimental habits and replace them with empowering ones to bring about a significant shift in your life.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: Your social circle plays a pivotal role in your growth journey. Select individuals who uplift and support you in your pursuit of revitalization. Elevating your standards will lead to greater achievements.

Embrace Gratitude: Fostering an attitude of gratitude can revolutionize your perspective on life. It liberates you from scarcity thinking and enables you to approach life with emotional and spiritual abundance.

Confront Your Fears: To revitalize yourself, step out of your comfort zone. Confront your fears and challenge your limiting beliefs. This is where genuine personal growth unfolds.

Give Back to Others: Personal growth is enriching, but authentic fulfillment comes from contributing to others. Whether through volunteering, sharing your skills, or providing financial support, giving back connects you with a higher purpose and imparts the beauty of grace.

If you're intrigued by the idea of coaching and how it can support your journey of revitalization, I invite you to connect and explore what coaching is all about. Coaching can provide valuable guidance and support, making these steps even more accessible. Remember, the path to personal growth and fulfillment begins with that first step toward reviving yourself.

15/09/2023

YOU SAID TOMORROW YESTERDAY - Overcoming Fear and Procrastination: Embrace Change for a Better You

Have you ever felt like you should be doing more in your life? Sometimes, that inner voice that says, "You are lazy," or "You can't do it," keeps you from taking action.

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Let's explore this together and find out how to beat these self-doubts.

Recognizing Your Achievements:

Pause for a moment and think about your life. Whether you're a parent, a partner, or part of a team, you've achieved a lot. It's easy to forget about all the hard work you've put in to get to where you are now. Here’s the truth: You're not lazy. You've accomplished incredible things, and that's proof of your dedication and effort.

Understanding the Root Cause: Fear:

Procrastination and self-doubt often come from fear. It's entirely normal to feel uncertain when you're trying something new. Whether it's starting a new project, seeking success in life, or making big changes, fear can sneak in.

When you're stepping into the unknown, it can be scary because your mind wants to protect you. But here's a big question to think about: Isn't it scarier to stay where you are and never grow?

Remember, it's okay to feel a little scared when you're making changes. Facing that fear is the key to becoming a better version of yourself.

Defeating Procrastination, Step by Step:

Now, let's talk about how to conquer procrastination and self-doubt with simple steps:

Identify Your Fears: Take a moment to figure out what scares you or what you're avoiding. When you write down these fears, you'll likely see that none of them are life-threatening. Don't let fear stop you from reaching your goals.

Focus on Your Goals: Think about your goals every single day. Imagine how fantastic it will feel when you achieve them. To make your goals a reality, connect them to your emotions. Think about how it will feel if you never reach those goals. Let that feeling motivate you.

Challenge Yourself: Every day, do something that you would do if self-doubt didn't hold you back. Now that you know your fears and can feel your goals, why wait? Embrace change today, so you won't have regrets in the future.

Remember that fear is often behind procrastination and those negative self-doubts. By understanding this and taking small steps to face your fears, keeping your goals in mind, and daring to make changes, you can beat procrastination and start growing.

Change might seem scary, but it's the path to becoming a better you. So, take action every day, and you'll conquer the procrastination obstacle for good!

Let’s talk, lets connect, lets go..



04/02/2024

Taking Your Life to the Next Level in 2024:
A Call to Action

Welcome to 2024 – a year poised for transformative change, where you have the opportunity to elevate your life to new heights.

If 2023 fell short of your expectations, it's time to revaluate your strategy, find motivation, and strive for the results you desire. If last year was a success, now is the moment to propel yourself to the next level. To achieve a different life, you must be willing to take different actions.

Let's explore the mindset and decisions needed to make 2024 your most successful year yet.

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Embrace Change:

Recognize that for your life to change, you must be open to doing things differently. Break free from the fear of not being enough or the worry that things won't work out. Challenge the stories and excuses that hold you back due to fear.

Make Decisions:

Decide to change your life today. Shift your focus from what you're afraid of to where you want to go. Decision-making is a powerful tool – choose to take control of your life, and you'll start paving the way toward a brighter future.

Face Fears and Excuses:

Confront the fears and excuses that have hindered your progress. Acknowledge them, challenge them, and replace them with empowering beliefs. It's time to rewrite your story and break free from the limitations you've imposed on yourself.

Push Through:

Recognize that growth occurs when you push through challenges. The next level of your life is waiting for you, and by pushing through obstacles, you'll discover more joy, love, and fulfilment. Embrace the discomfort as a sign of growth.

Be Honest with Yourself:

Take an honest look at where you are now and where you want to go. Identify the gap between the two and commit to closing it. Understand what's truly holding you back and devise a plan to overcome these obstacles within a short period.

You owe it to yourself to live the life you've dreamed of on your own terms. The journey begins now, so make the decision to start today. Get in touch with your desires, face your fears, and commit to the changes that will transform your life forever. 2024 is your year to take control and create the life you truly deserve. Start your journey now!

Let’s go ………



24/03/2024

Redefining Success: Crafting Your Personal 'I'm Successful When'…. List

In the pursuit of success, it's easy to find ourselves chasing someone else's definition of achievement. We often strive for external validation, accolades, and societal approval, only to feel unfulfilled when we reach these goals. Today, let's redefine success on our terms.

True success is like a custom suit – it fits you and only you perfectly. It's time to ask yourself:

What does success mean to me, stripped of the expectations of my family, my friends, or society? What does success mean to me if it does not involve any external accolades or acknowledgement?

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The ‘I'm Successful When' List

A powerful tool to help redefine success is the 'I'm Successful When' List. This list is a personal definition of success, based on what you value deeply. It could be health, relationships, growth, freedom, impact, or any other aspect that resonates with you.

Here's an example of a personal 'I'm Successful When' List:

I'm Successful When…

I am healthier and more active each year than the year before. This reflects a value of health and well-being.

I spend quality time with my loved ones and myself. This shows the importance of relationships and self-care.

I engage in work that challenges and excites me. This indicates a value of growth and passion.

I have the freedom to ask each day: "What would I like to do today?" This signifies a value of freedom and autonomy.

My passive income exceeds my lifestyle needs. This represents financial freedom and security.

I make a bigger impact each year than the year before. This demonstrates a value of contribution and making a difference.

I can take a break from work without affecting my income. This shows the importance of balance and sustainability.

Crafting Your 'I'm Successful When' List

Now, it's your turn to craft your 'I'm Successful When' List. Reflect on what truly matters to you. What makes you feel fulfilled and content? Remember, this is your list. It should reflect your values, not anyone else's.

Reflecting on your personal values and aspirations is the first step towards defining your unique version of success. It's about tuning out external influences and listening to your inner voice. Write down what truly matters to you in various aspects of life - work, health, relationships, and personal growth. Remember, it's okay to adjust these criteria as you grow and evolve. Regularly review your 'success criteria' to ensure they align with your current self and future aspirations. Redefining success on your terms is a powerful process that allows you to create an authentic life. Start today and witness the transformation in your world.

In conclusion, success is a deeply personal concept. By crafting your 'I'm Successful When' List, you can redefine success on your terms and strive for what truly matters to you. So, are you ready to redefine success? Start crafting your list today!

Why not share your ideas with me…… make it real …. let’s inspire each other….

Love Monika